It all began one morning in the gynecology department at MD Anderson Cancer Center when Vanessa nicknamed their humble coffee pot: “Cafe Cope.” Coming from a place of wanting to share more knowledge on trauma-informed care in a relaxed setting, Cafe Cope naturally evolved into The Coping Collective: a meaningful space representing the importance of self and community care at every given opportunity.
I have always wanted to work in health from an early age. My career started assisting support groups, which led me towards pursuing my masters in social work. There I studied mental health across the lifespan: from the impact of intergenerational trauma, to maternal mental health and end of life care. Listening to people’s bodies, stories and feelings is something I cherish and hold dear to my heart.
After going through a string of family hardships, I took time to ponder the importance of mental health as an individual, as a family and as a wider collective.
Once I embarked on my own healing journey, I became invested in studying the world that lives inside of each of us and around us. One day I asked my therapist: what do you think if i do this? She replied: I have been waiting for you to ask this very question.
Therapy as a life choice is critical and a human right. I realized how important it is to participate in grounded, evidence based practices while also feeding the fire by celebrating one’s identity and customs.
Prioritize emotional self-regulation
Minimize trauma impact
Improve symptoms of depression
Reduce stress levels and frequency of panic
Identify cognitive distortions
Build up emotional vocabulary
Maintain a relaxed nervous system
Learn new life affirmations
Release shame and guilt
Acquire new tools to help with possible triggers
Feel understood and held by others
Feel understood and held by others
Accept attachment wounds
Reduce anxious symptoms and tendencies
Boost energy levels
Honor past and present experiences
Develop self-trust and collective trust
Connect to our higher powers and purposes
Adopt healthier self talk